How to Start a BDSM Kinky Chat

Kinky BDSM chat in action
Kinkster chat is not so different from other conversations you’ll have online. Be respectful of your chat partner, accept ‘no’ as an answer, remember that on the other side there’s a person just like you, and generally avoid doing things that will turn your kinky chat into a creepy chat.

If you play your cards right, your BDSM chat can turn into a full BDSM online session, but like all BDSM sessions, make you are aware of the other person’s boundaries and have their consent to engage them with some kinky chat domination or submissions. Don’t approach a stranger and try to dominate them just because their profile says they’re a sub. That a quick way to make kinkster chats feel uncomfortable.

Remember, BDSM is not just about leather, whips and chains, it’s also about making an emotional connection. A kinky chat session can be a great way to get a connection going, and build on the type of intimacy that true kinksters need. A few minutes of good BDSM chat can make all the difference.

See Whiplr Elite, Annie Bear, tip on making a connection with someone in the BDSM scene, and keep it in mind when you’re messaging someone for a kinky chat: