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Kinky Playmates

BDSM Dating. Kinky Chat. Fetish Community
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Whiplr is a hub for the BDSM, Fetish,
alternative lifestyles and Kink community.

We embrace the diversity of the community. All are welcome on our platforms: newbies, experienced, straight, gay, bisexual, transgender, doms, subs, cuckholders, masters, slaves. From those who live the lifestyle 24/7 to the girls next door who is just curious.

Whiplr has been the proud sponsor of the biggest worldwide fetish events for the last five years and stands with the community in its aim to become respected everywhere. We couldn’t have done it without the support Whiplr Elites - the world most recognizable and leading professional Dommes, educators, artists, lifestylers, and models.
Join us in celebrating an open, diverse, and kinkier world.


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Find Kinksters Wherever you Go

A location-based feed lets you find delicious new friends nearby for dating and play, and with filters you fine-tune your search for a new playmate!

Something for Everyone

With 230 fetishes to browse, if you don’t find something that excites you, you’re probably vanilla.

A Robust and Powerful Messenger

Our messenger lets you be in charge, and even delete your message from the recipient’s phone. You are in control. Chat, call, and share photos – and if things heat up, you can have a live video session.

A Community of Kink

Create and join group discussions and events ensure that you’ll never feel left out. If it happens in the world of kink, you’ll see it on whiplr!

See Real Kinksters, in Real Time

With hundreds of new photos uploaded each day, competitions and thousands of shots to browse, whiplr can be your own kinky Instagram.

Privacy and Discretion

Stay as anonymous as you like, decide what to show the world and who sees it, and block naughty users.

Meet the Elites:


Mistress Akella

Mistress Simone Justice

Mistress Vinyl Queen

Max Candy

Mistress Rousson

Goth Charlotte

Whiplr Elite are leaders and trendsetters in the BDSM world: professional Dommes, educators, artists, lifestyles, and models. Elites work as part of our community to educate, moderate and promote BDSM-related causes and events.

Elite Tips for Kinksters:

Lady Scarlett Sin

Don't Be Afraid To Explore

Domme Jaguar

BDSM is About Intimacy

Mistress Natalya

Get Involved in the Community

Whiplr’s platform is highly reputable, and received the most recognition from media outlets:


"In terms of sexual orientation, the app is delightfully loosey-goosey."

New York Daily News

"… it’s not just for curious “Fifty Shades of Grey” fans eager to try their hand at caning. The newly released Tinder-like platform was also designed for experienced players."


"Whiplr is offering everyone the chance to find his or her own playmate."


"Meet Whiplr, perhaps the most inevitable app of all time."

The Daily Mail

"Most importantly the login remains anonymous and private, so users don't have to worry about Whiplr linking to their Facebook pages or sharing their personal information... In addition to the app's secure login, you can keep your messages and videos from falling into the wrong hands thanks to the app's ability to delete shared content from both your device and the Whiplr user to whom you sent it to."


"Go forth, kink community. Go forth."


"An app for people who prefer to get off with more than just a special cuddle."

International Business Times

"The only location-based messenger that promises to connect both experienced and newbie kinksters with each other."


"While apps like Whiplr might have been considered just for the fringes a few years ago, it seems destined for wild popularity."

Marie Claire

"… it works to connect users who want to explore the world of fetish without the fear of being judged."


"If you get your kicks from kink and your funsies from fetish the app, which launched today, could be for you."